Welcome to my carrd


About me


  • You can call me Sylvan or Syl for short

  • I was born in 2007, which means I'm 18

  • I can speak both English and Vietnamese

  • As for my pronouns I use they/them and he/him (or any normative-ish pronouns works too)

Boundaries


  • I don't mind sexual jokes only when we're close plus it doesn't include minors, animals and my loved ones (or anyone else IRL) without their consent (except for minors and animals, please don't)

  • I'm completely fine with nicknames as long as they're appropriate and respectful

  • Flashing lights and metal scrapping sound discomfort me

BYF/Add me


  • I'm really bad at socializing and social cues, my apologises if I accidentally offend you

  • English isn't my mother tongue, so of course there would be mistakes

  • I curse a lot when speaking Vietnamese

  • I'll respect you as long as you also respect me, it has to be mutual

  • If you dislike me or my presence, do not hesitate to block/hide my account

  • I can use tone indicators when talking to you if needed, please ask me first

  • Sometimes I talk too formally, sometimes I talk like a dork, sometimes I talk with lots of emoticons and exclamations

DNI if you


  • Are homophobic, transphobic, xenophobic, misogynistic, etc

  • Are a pedophile, sexualize minors

  • Are racist, sexist, ableist, etc

  • Invalidate people's/one's identity

  • Are close-minded, ignorant, hypocritical, someone with double-standards

  • Are a nazi/alt-right

  • Fetishize gay/lesbian relationships, disability

  • Romanticize mental illness/medical conditions, criminals

  • Support, justify any/all of the above

Random trivia


  • I'm a gemini

  • My MBTI is INFJ

  • I'm currently in the GMT+7 time zone

  • I absolutely love cats

  • I enjoy nature

  • My favorite pastries are egg tarts and Spekulatius